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"We are born with two needs:
Authenticity and attachment."
Dr. Gabor Maté
My name is Olivia, I am trauma-informed coach,
certified in Integrated Attachment Theoryâ„¢ (IAT).
My work is to heal unhealthy attachments AT THE ROOT,
to help you retrieve a stable sense of self,
to bring you back in touch with your own body,
and to facilitate the deep inner restoration
which eventually will allow for authentic attachment.
Especially for the female nervous system/body, deep inner transformation requires more than just willpower—it requires nervous system safety and the rewiring of subconscious programs.
"It all began with this tragic conflict [...] between authenticity on one hand and attachment on the other."
Dr. Gabor Maté
Why do most coaching and even therapeutic approaches do not bring the desired deep emotional healing? Because they primarily address the conscious mind, not the subconscious, and neglect the needs of female physiology.
Relational reactions, emotional triggers and self-protective behaviors are mostly not driven by logic, but by the subconscious mind and the nervous system. Authentic attachment cannot be achieved through smartness or will power. Some of the most intelligent, resilient and capable people on earth walk around with deep wounds, emotional pain and unhealthy coping mechanisms. It was never about intelligence, strength or talent.
Without addressing the deeper layers of the subconscious and the nervous system, we may eventually understand our patterns very well, but still feel stuck in the same painful or destructive cycles. Subconscious reprogramming works at the root, where core associations with safety, love and identity were first wired into the brain.
Have you been living with emotional pain, or been surpressing it for a long time?
Are you tired of having unhealthy attachments to people?
Do you want to stop destructive behaviors?
No matter what–you can restore your Self
